tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19904442073419976472024-03-13T23:39:01.615-07:00I REALLY should be cleaning...Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.comBlogger98125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-17290976586878277372013-06-11T16:55:00.000-07:002013-06-11T16:55:05.720-07:00Summer PlansSummer is RAPIDLY approaching- as in the kids' last day of school is tomorrow. Yikes! Thankfully I've been anticipating this day and have made some summer plans in the HOPES of keeping the kids (especially my older two) somewhat occupied and hopefully to keep me from losing my mind. :) I'd love to spend every day at the pool, especially since it gets SOOOO hot here, but with 4 little ones I'm not sure how I will safely manage all of them on my own. Especially since the older two are not allowed in the kiddie pool area. They are only marginally swimming on their own. I will definitely be keeping the older two in lifejackets when we go....but may have to find someone to accompany me to the pool. Swim lessons are not currently offered where we live but there are signs that they will be offered in the future. I hope. I inherited a kiddie pool that I know I'll be filling up on our porch for the kids to play in. I've already done that one day and it was fun for all, including me! Never too old to get in a kiddie pool right?<br />
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Other than swimming- I bought a homeschool science curriculum, Apologia Astronomy, to work on over the summer. I purchased the junior notebooks as well as the lapbook packages. I don't think it is necessary to have BOTH the notebooks and lapbooks, but my kids are LOVING doing both. We have done two days of lessons and they are already begging me to do more. I am really enjoying it as well and learning a ton. I love that Apologia has a curriculum focused on God and His creation. I really think we are going to enjoy working through the curriculum this summer. Thanks Jessica for mentioning it to me!<br />
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I also made a letter-writing box for the kids. I put envelopes, stationery, addresses and stamps in it. I am hopeful that when I hear "I'm bored" I can direct them to go write a letter to a cousin, aunt, grandparent, etc. The kids also have summer journals. My daughter's teacher made a journal jar for her full of journal prompts so I think both kids may benefit from those.<br />
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One thing I really love about being a mom is being able to read aloud to the kids from chapter books. We are finishing the first book in the Little House on the Prairie series. We may continue on with this series or move onto something else. I'm thinking Charlie and the Chocolate Factory could be fun. We've already read quite a bit aloud together (read alouds from Sonlight Core A) and I have really loved it and so have the kids.<br />
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The older two also got accepted into a Korean culture/language class this summer during July. I don't think it is SUPER intensive but I'm looking forward to them learning more Korean vocab- and let's be honest- having something to do. I also plan on putting them in VBS when the time comes. Of course my kids will have lots and lots of play time inside and outside and hopefully lots of playdates with friends.<br />
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As for my littles- lots of snuggling and playing. I ordered some do-a-dot markers for my three year old. He loves to sit and color or cut with the big kids while they are doing work. I'm sure for baby girl I'll be chasing her around the house and taking things out of her mouth that shouldn't be in there. :)<br />
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<br />Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-27692183206149203992013-05-12T16:19:00.000-07:002013-05-12T16:19:06.747-07:00Joyfully ExhaustedWe are home! And have been for about two months. I can hardly believe that she is here and yet it seems like she always has been. Our girl is an absolute joy to have in our lives. It amazes me how much she has grown- literally and emotionally. She started out our time in the DRC a snuggly "newborn" and now she is a vibrant, happy, energetic pumpkin. We needed her and she needed us. We praise God daily for giving her to us.<br />
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Having 4 small kiddos at home is EXHAUSTING if I do say so. Especially since my hubby started a new job the very day I got home from the DRC. A job that often requires 14 hour days and some weekend hours. Yuck! It has been an adjustment to have 4 and to be a "single mom" most of the time to our four! Plus little miss has been waking up at night to eat. She had some catching up to do, and so we've been happy to meet her needs. But mama is TIRED. :) And so this post is entitled Joyfully Exhausted. Because I'm in love with her- in love with all of my kiddos. Blessed beyond measure. Home.Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-34479268562127109922013-02-24T15:02:00.000-08:002013-02-24T15:02:06.801-08:00It Takes a Village<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It takes a village to adopt a child. This thought keeps running through my head these days as we (hopefully?) approach the day when we hold our daughter in our arms. We don't live anywhere even remotely near family, so we have to rely on neighbors and friends to help us with our needs. And they sure have volunteered. We have good friends who will be caring for our three kids along with their three while we are gone. We have other friends and neighbors who have volunteered to make meals for the family and our kids. Still others will be helping with school bus pick up, watching one or two of the kids periodically to give our friends a break, and checking in with our friends and kids. Friends and Bible study members have donated money and items for our daughter's orphanage. Countless friends and family members near and far have been lifting us and our situation up in prayer daily. Others have dropped off a card at just the right time- that day when we hear that we STILL have not received a visa. Others drop off brownies to console. Whatever the gesture is, it is so meaningful to us. It shows us that people care not only for us but for our daughter and our children already at home. We are so blessed to have our village. </span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-50561945891932117522013-01-27T05:01:00.000-08:002013-01-27T05:01:23.748-08:00One step forward, two steps back<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I was SOOOO hoping to be traveling to get our little princess this weekend...but no such luck. The embassy interview we THOUGHT we had, we were SUPPOSED to have had two weeks ago didn't happen. Why? I'm not really sure. What we do know is that it will happen this week if it didn't happen at the end of last week. I can't even tell you how disappointing it was, to think we were on the cusp of traveling, awaiting travel news any day, only to find out that we had taken steps backward! UGH! On top of that our sweet girl has an injured leg. Something happened where a nanny was holding her and fell. They were concerned about her leg being broken, and so we have a picture of her teeny body with a giant cast on from the doctor. She was brought a few days later for a checkup and xray and there was no break. Phew! She was supposed to have a follow up appointment this past Friday and we haven't heard anything about that yet. We are so so ready to have her in our arms. To be able to love on her and care for her in the way only a family can. To fatten up her skinny little legs and tiny frame. To see a smile on that face. Please join us in praying that everything will go smoothly from here on out. That her visa will be issued in RECORD time and that we can snuggle her in our arms SOON!!! </span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-53372056981766399862013-01-27T04:38:00.001-08:002013-01-27T04:45:27.700-08:00Happy Birthday Rory Grace<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Many of you know that before we were matched with our current daughter, we had another Congolese daughter, Rory Grace. We were matched with her in February of 2012, became her parents officially in July of 2012, and were getting close to bringing her home when she passed away from a sudden illness. She was just shy of 18 months old. This Thursday, January 31 would be her second birthday. Though we never got to hold her in our arms we hold her in our hearts every day.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We have been trying to figure out a way to honor her life and to help others. There are two different families who are adopting children through our agency and we would love to be able to help them bring their children home. These children needed a family and these families stepped up in faith and still need assistance with funds. We would be honored if you would make a donation in Rory's name to either or both of these families. If you are unable to donate we would love if you would please spread the word about these precious families and their need. </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The first family is Kati and Lew A. <a href="http://nostretchmarksrequired.com/">http://nostretchmarksrequired.com/</a> They JUST returned home with their two kids from the DRC. A few months after arriving home they found out that their children's older sister is now available for adoption. Read more <a href="http://nostretchmarksrequired.com/2013/01/18/ridiculously-big-news/">here</a>. Their finances are plumb tuckered right out after two adoptions within the past few months. Please consider helping them bring this sweetie home to be reunited with her siblings. Check out their quilt fundraiser! Click <a href="http://nostretchmarksrequired.com/donate/">here</a> to donate to their adoption!</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The second family is the Hopkins family <a href="http://www.howmanyis2many.blogspot.kr/">http://www.howmanyis2many.blogspot.kr/</a> They have eight kiddos at home already and have felt led to adopt a sibling group of four girls. This group of girls was waiting so long for a home. Our agency was considering having to split the girls up to find them a home, but Praise God, this family stepped out in faith! Financing the adoption of four children at once is an incredible task that they are fundraising their way through. Please consider donating to their adoption fund. They are having a necklace fundraiser that may entice you! There is a donation button on their homepage. Or click <a href="http://www.howmanyis2many.blogspot.kr/p/fundraising.html">here</a> for instructions on how to donate to their necklace fundraiser.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I realize that adoption is not the only way to help children in need. But it is ONE way that we can make a difference in the lives of children. Rory matters to us. Her life matters to us and we want to find a way to continue to make her life memorable to others. Happy happy Birthday to our daughter in heaven! We love you!</span></div>
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Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-73177097656353301632013-01-01T20:39:00.000-08:002013-01-01T20:39:36.133-08:00End of Year<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The first few days of 2013 have left me feeling a little melancholy. I rang in 2012 in tears over the loss of Rory (well, I fell asleep before midnight...but prior to that). It was hard to end the year so differently than I thought it would end. When we started this process last January I never imagined we'd be ending the year without our daughter. I still miss her and probably always will. I hope that I'll get some more resolution to her death when we go pick up our baby girl in the DRC. My husband and I are hoping to find a place and a time to have a little memorial service for her. Just us and our new sweet one. I feel like I need to have more closure...though I'm sure there will always be sadness. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">An additional weight on my heart has been our other unresolved issue I talk about cryptically in other posts. Still unresolved. Trying to rest in God's plan for this yet pleading with him for a resolution. And not just any resolution, a screaming from the rooftops happy resolution. He is the God of miracles. He can do it. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As we wait for the time to pass until we can go get our sweet girl I'm trying to bring myself out of this funk (It isn't a big funk, don't worry). Today is day 2 of my no sugar, strict paleo, essentially whole 30 diet. I'm not experiencing the cranky sugar deprived monster that I was last year when I gave up sugar. But it could also be contributing to my general "blah" that I'm in. My new year resolution is to lose this 5-10 extra lbs that I've gained since moving here (don't weigh myself, just guessing based on how my clothes fit). Darn that bibimbap in a hot pot! ;) I think spending lots of time in the kitchen could help keep me busy during this wait. Today I've made almond milk and am about to start almond butter(love my vitamix!). </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm also hoping to figure out what in the world to do with all of my pictures. Print them? Blog them? Put them in books? What?! It is a big big project and one I at least need to have a plan for. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Oh yeah- and it would probably be helpful if we set up sweet baby's crib, etc. :) Little things like that. :) </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So, as 2013 starts, I'm keeping busy and I'm praying. Praying for time to pass, for our baby girl to stay healthy, for healing of my heart, and for miraculous resolution. Praying that 2013 draws us closer to God and that we stand with Him in the trials. Sorry this has been so disjointed. I just needed to get it out! :)</span><br />
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<i>Scrapbook bunting for my friend's baby shower that I hosted</i>. <i>Ignore the ugly brown wood. We live in base housing remember? Also, ignore the fact that we don't have curtains...we hung the curtain rod only to realize we lost one of our curtains in the move. On my list- order more curtains!</i></div>
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<i>Christmas cards. Ok, this is not really nesting, but I did decide to write a lengthy letter with ours (unusual for me) and got a cute stone stamp with our name in Hangul to stamp on all of the letters. Plus it makes me feel more productive if I add it to this blog post. :)</i></div>
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<br />Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-89724582676499950622012-10-30T00:01:00.001-07:002012-10-30T00:01:17.736-07:00Habakkuk, where have you been all my life?<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Several friends <strike>pestered me</strike> lovingly pointed out that I needed to post on my blog. I suppose I do. We have been blessed with the referral for an infant girl from the DRC. We have been moving forward in the process to bring her home. We still miss our Rory Grace so much, but have been very blessed with this new referral and with hope in our hearts that we will be able to bring her home to our family. She is officially our daughter legally, now we are working on our immigration forms, etc, etc. So much paperwork involved in adoption! And so much notarizing. And so much longing, and thinking, and praying. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Dealing with the death of Rory has been very difficult but He has really been faithful to lead our family through it. We now miss her, and always will, but we are feeling much more healed. Our other major life stress still continues. It has been weighing on us for years. I am praying for resolution (praying for happy, JOYOUS resolution) in the next couple of months. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In a giant coincidence (okay, okay, yeah right. Totally not a coincidence. We know WHO decided I'd be doing those studies during this time) both of the Bible studies I am in are about God's faithfulness and presence during times of trial and suffering. In our church small group we are reading <a href="http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/books/spectacular-sins">Spectacular Sins</a> by John Piper. This book is all about the sovereignty of God, and what his role is in creating or allowing trials and suffering. The other women's Bible study is <a href="http://www.christianbook.com/lord-where-when-bad-things-happen/kay-arthur/9781578564385/pd/64387">Lord, Where Are You When Bad Things Happen</a> by Kay Arthur which focuses on the book of Habakkuk. I have never read the book of Habakkuk before (or maybe I have, but don't remember any of it!). I am absolutely certain that God saved these words for me to read during this time of my life. A time where we have been through a lot. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">At the beginning of the book, Habakkuk says "How long, O Lord, will I call for help, and You will not hear?" This is often how I feel. That I have prayed for resolution to our current trial for so long. And that He is not hearing. He is not listening. He is not doing anything. I am the tantrumming two-year-old stomping my feet in front of the Lord. Why God, are you not taking away this burden? and Why did you have to allow Rory to die? </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The Lord has given me answers to both situations in Habakkuk. He says in verse 5 "Look among the nations! Observe! Be astonished! Wonder! Because I am doing something in your days- You would not believe if you were told". God is truly in control. His plan is so much bigger than I could imagine. He doesn't reveal His ways to us. We would not understand. I would not understand. Like that two-year-old, who doesn't like his father's choices, I, the tantrumming adult cannot understand my Father's will. I have to trust that He knows best. "For the vision is yet for the appointed time; it hastens toward the goal and it will not fail. Though it tarries, wait for it; For it will certainly come, it will not delay." Habakkuk 2:3 His plan always succeeds, always occurs. His plan was for us to only love Rory from a distance, to see her in heaven someday, and to be the parents of our new precious daughter. His plan for our other trial will eventually come to light. As we walk through His plans, even if we don't understand them, we rejoice that He will be with us through it all. We hope that we will be able to bring our new daughter into our home and to be her parents here, for a very very long time. We also hope that we will be able to celebrate the end of our other trial soon, and that as it ends that it will end the way we desperately want it to end. At the end of it all, no matter what may come, we strive to have the same attitude and draw the same conclusions that Habakkuk did.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">"Though the fig tree should not blossom</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">And there be no fruit on the vines,</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Though the yield of the olive should fail</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">And the fields produce no food,</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Though the flock should be cut off from the fold</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">And there be no cattle in the stalls,</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Yet I will exult in the Lord,</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I will rejoice in the God of my salvation.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The Lord God is my strength,</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">And He has made my feet like hinds' feet,</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">And makes me walk on my high places."</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Praise be to God.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">That said- even though we are new- He is using SOOOOO many people, saying so many extremely kind things to minister to us. And that is an INCREDIBLE blessing to me/us. New friends, old friends, acquaintances near and far. I've had old friends drive up (<a href="http://www.texasberenguer.blogspot.com/">or offer to drive up but then their kids get sick</a>) from other bases to see me and distract me from my sadness, and new friends invite me and my kids to dinner. We've had so many encouraging emails with people saying how they read a Bible verse and it reminded them of us, and of course it is just the verse that I needed to hear. Last night we got an amazingly kind email from the pastor of our old church and his wife. I then decided to turn on some music while I got ready for bed and the song <a href="http://youtu.be/TCunuL58odQ">"How He Loves" by David Crowder Band</a> came on. Listening to the lyrics about God's love for me made me think about all of the people surrounding us and lifting us in prayer. That is how He loves me. He is just POURING out his love through these people to me. Yes, this situation absolutely sucks. But because He loves me He is surrounding me with blessings. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 13px;"><i>He is jealous for me,<br />Loves like a hurricane, I am a tree,<br />Bending beneath the weight of his wind and mercy.<br />When all of a sudden,<br />I am unaware of these afflictions eclipsed by glory,<br />And I realise just how beautiful You are,<br />And how great Your affections are for me.</i><br /><br /><br /><span>More lyrics: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/d/david_crowder/#share</span></span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-75076266296258839092012-08-19T00:49:00.001-07:002012-08-19T01:02:18.004-07:00She is gone<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Yesterday morning we received the news that no one wants to hear. Our precious daughter passed away unexpectedly in the DRC. From what we were told she was sick for only a day and then died. They don't know what she had or why she died. From what we knew she was healthy. We are absolutely heartbroken. We have prayed for her and talked about her, sent her packages and have held so much love in our hearts and hope and anticipation of the day we would hold her in our arms finally. Moving here, updating our homestudy...everything was falling into place. We were finally in the home we would bring her to. We were anticipating traveling in October or November. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The night before I was opening boxes and sorting our little girl clothes, planning which ones would fit her when she came home. I have piles on my living room floor ready to put in her drawers for a little girl who will never wear them. A little girl who I long to hold in my arms and snuggle tight. A little girl who I will never get to meet this side of heaven. My daughter. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We were told that the people who loved her and cared for her in the DRC will have a service of some type for her and a burial. This brings me comfort to know that she will be remembered in this way. It breaks my heart that I wasn't there when she was sick, and that I can't be there when they lay her in the ground. My poor sweet baby. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In just one day, a week and a half after moving here, we have received an amazing out pouring of love and support. Three separate people brought us flowers yesterday and we have received many many emails and fb messages of love. We treasure these and thank you all for these. I know the Mighty Counselor will help us heal. Already today is a little better than yesterday. For now we look forward to the day we meet her again in heaven and take comfort knowing that she is in a place so much better than we could ever create. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We love you, sweet Rory Grace. Forever.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">(And no, this is in no way related to the other great or devastating news I talked about in the previous post. This is completely unexpected. That issue is still unresolved.)</span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-12741646287815474752012-08-08T00:24:00.000-07:002013-01-27T05:05:36.752-08:00We made it<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So much has been happening in our lives...I don't even know how to sum it up in a blog post. It probably needs ten posts...but one will have to do! </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We made it to Korea 2 days ago. The kids and I traveled halfway around the world and lived to tell about it. They did fantastic on the flight over, and other than me not getting to sleep the entire time, a near meltdown after we landed and had to go through customs, having jet lag and then getting diagnosed with strep the day after we arrived, it went okay! :) We were met at the airport by my husband whom I hadn't seen in a month, and many amazing friends that we had been stationed with over the years. I'm so blessed.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We are starting to settle in somewhat. The suitcases look like they have exploded all over the house (that my hubs moved into after he got here). We have gotten our small initial shipment of our stuff and have government furniture until our main shipment gets here. We have a homestudy worker coming from Malaysia on Friday to do our homestudy update which we needed done only because of our move. It will be great to get that done and submitted to USCIS ASAP. Our main shipment ALSO may arrive on Friday...and while I'm looking forward to getting our stuff that we haven't seen in 2 months, I don't know if I can handle prepping for an update while getting all of our boxes at the same time. Plus our social worker may not be able to walk in our house if that happens! We may have to have them wait until Monday to deliver...but it sure would be nice to have our stuff! :) </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">On the adoption front things are moving along great. We are officially the parents of our new Congolese princess!!! She will be moved in the next few weeks to the agency's transition home so she can get all of her paperwork done and come HOME!!! We got updated pics of her a few weeks ago and she is so precious. She burned her poor little hand very badly so that was hard to see, but I got pictures of it a few weeks after the incident and it looked much better. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Our family could also really use prayer for an ongoing situation that I have alluded to in other posts. It is honestly the most stressful thing happening in my life right now (yes, more stressful than an overseas move and an overseas adoption combined!!). I'd love to be able to share more (don't hate me!) but I need to keep it offline for the time being. Hopefully someday I'll be able to share and it will be GREAT news (it will either be GREAT or DEVASTATING!!) but until then just send out a prayer for God's sovereignty in our life and His perfect peace to continue to surpass any worry in our minds. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Blessings to you and your families!</span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-83476589299419938712012-05-20T13:36:00.001-07:002012-05-20T13:36:29.169-07:00Inching along...<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This past week finally brought a little bit of resolution to some items in my last post. We finally got our orders. What that means in the military world is that we were finally able to schedule packers, shippers, plane tickets, date to check out of our rental home, carpet cleaning, shipping our car, etc. A LOT of plans were hinging on getting those orders. We had been hearing that a lot of people were not getting movers when they wanted them as this is an EXTREMELY busy season in this area. People were having to rearrange vacations/cancel vacations, delay moves, etc. Despite our late orders we were still able to get movers scheduled in a very timely manner. In fact, it was better than we expected. The bad news is that means that one of our shipments goes out this week and I am SOOOO not ready! We have one quick shipment where we will send the items that we need as soon as we arrive in Korea (yet we will be without them for the next month or two...figure that out!), one main shipment of the remainder of things we want to go to Korea, and one final shipment will go to a storage facility to remain here in the U.S. for the two years we are in Korea. It is a LOT of sorting as you can imagine. And I'm really good at avoiding tasks like this until the last minute....except it already is the last minute! Ahh!</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We also heard a teeny bit from our agency. We got a bill for our daughter's passport which doesn't mean much of anything except that they are beginning the process to get her one. Still it is progress! We also heard that our care package to her finally got sent. Which means (fingers crossed) that when it arrives we should see a picture of her soon after they deliver it! </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Oh! And I almost forgot! We got our US immigration approval in the mail this week! I was SOOO thrilled! We'll have to reapply for this with our new info after we get to Korea, but it shouldn't be too much of a problem since we have this approval already. </span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-77191200158783205992012-05-03T06:51:00.002-07:002012-05-03T06:51:47.812-07:00Waiting...<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It feels like we are waiting for a lot of things in our life right now:</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Waiting...on new pictures of our sweet baby girl.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Waiting...to hear about a court date for her.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Waiting...to have orders (what we need to start planning ANYTHING for our move).</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Waiting...to ship our car, schedule our movers, officially reserve plane tickets.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Waiting...for another huge long-term stress to be resolved.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Waiting...to hear an answer from God on whether or not to homeschool next year (I think not??).</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So thankful I have the Lord to talk to during these times where we wait. Thankful that He is in control of it all.</span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-18908304309434374512012-04-30T08:36:00.000-07:002012-04-30T08:36:09.198-07:00A few more things done!<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The big news of the week this past week is that our dossier is officially in the DRC. I'm hoping things will finally start happening soon! :) We also were able to get our fingerprints for our USCIS approval and I'm SOOO hoping we get our approval for that soon too and that they don't need any additional information.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I have found a few good homestudy provider options for when we get to Korea, so I feel good about that. I'm going to try and get our homestudy update scheduled now, so that when the kids and I arrive in Korea we can get our update done and sent to USCIS ASAP. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This weekend I saw a little girl with dark skin cuddling with her mama. I asked the mom how old she was and she was only a few weeks older than our little girl. It made me SOOO sad to actually see a little girl the same age as our daughter. I wish I had her to cuddle NOW! </span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-83182284055130009342012-04-24T06:37:00.000-07:002012-04-24T06:37:03.459-07:00Moving along!<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Since my last post I've received a couple of pieces of good news about our adoption. First, our dossier coordinator called and said that we are getting back $500 due to some changes in paperwork needs in our region of the DRC only! I was super excited to hear that! I kept waiting to hear the "bad news" from her, but there wasn't any! Yippee! The second piece we heard yesterday is that our dossier is officially in the Congo! That means stuff can actually start happening, like getting court dates scheduled, etc. We are still hoping to go and get her sometime in the fall...maybe September October ish? </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Yesterday my husband and our youngest were walking outside. My baby kept stopping at random points in the walk to declare "I win!" where he would then get tickled by Papa. I am so so ready for our girl to be home and join in these moments! </span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-4905821826956333592012-04-20T12:28:00.001-07:002012-04-20T12:28:19.490-07:00So much!<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">SOOO much has been happening since my last blog post...I really should just quit this blogging thing altogether, since it mainly consists of writing posts in my head and that's all. Today I'm feeling the need to vent to cyberspace though, so I guess it is good I have it!</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Big news #1: We're adopting again! I'm so so so incredibly excited. This is a surprise to NO ONE considering how much I talk about and love adoption and advocating for orphans! :) We have been matched with the cutest little toddler girl from the DRC. We started the process in January and have been trucking along well ever since. Our dossier should be sent to the DRC within a week (I think!), and then fun things start happening, like court dates, visas, etc.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Big news #2: The U.S. is kicking us out once again (Not really)! After reveling for the past 10 months (we were in Japan for 2 years) in the glory that is T@rget, Chip0tle, grocery shopping past 7pm, being in the same general time zone as family and friends, being able to visit said family and friends more easily...we are being sent back overseas courtesy of the military. This summer we head to South Korea to begin adventures there.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So yeah...international adoption=stressful, international move=stressful...combine the two= well, you can imagine! I've talked with our social worker for our agency and our move shouldn't cause TOO many changes in our adoption. We'll have to update our homestudy as soon as we can after moving so that US immigration will have a current copy and our current address. We may also have to figure out some sort of different visa for getting our daughter from the DRC into Korea...which may involve stopping for some time in the U.S. after picking her up in the Congo...but really I have NO idea. I'm still gathering info on how it is all going to work. I think once we find a social worker in Korea who can update our HS he or she will be able to provide us with more info. I think our adoption timeline should remain about the same...but it may delay picking up our daughter by a month or two which is a bummer to say the least.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Those are the MAIN big things in our lives. Please say prayers for our family during these big transitions. I would much appreciate it!</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I just got around to printing and hanging the rules in our home today. To be true to our family though, this should really include some of our OTHER family rules:</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">- no saying "eyeball" at the table (they think that word is SOOO funny)</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">- no rolling down the car windows in the winter</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">- no pushing/hitting</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">- no screaming in the house</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">- no wiping boogers on doors/walls</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">- you must always wipe your bottom after going #2</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Somehow I don't think these look as good as the list I ordered though.... :)</span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-3474881128564826672012-01-28T09:23:00.000-08:002012-01-28T09:23:46.676-08:00Ode to Sugar<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Dear Sugar,</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It has been five days since I broke up with you. I know, it was sudden and abrupt. We have been through so much together and have been especially close since the holidays. You have been there for me when I needed you, and even when I didn't. I know on Sunday it seemed like our love was only growing stronger. My coffee creamer, brownies, hot chocolate, and ice cream indulgences only showed that my love was strengthening. In reality I was getting ready to say good-bye to you for thirty days. I was hoping I could make our love last. Alas, like most good things, there can be too much of it. I was enjoying your company too much. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">You were a part of my life in ways that I didn't even realize....that chocolate chip when I get something out of the pantry, that dab of honey on peanut butter toast. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">You brought me joy, but you also allowed me to continue to drag around this flat tire around my waist. You brought me happiness, but also cavities. So, on Monday morning, I said a temporary goodbye. I need to retrain my brain and body not to want and need you so much. Oh, but I do miss you so (SO SO SO) much. I hope that this is not goodbye forever, but only so long for a while. I want you to know though, that I am hoping to change and I may not need or want you in my life the same way as before. I may only want you on occasion. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I hope that I do not continue to pine for you as I do now. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">But for now, my friend, my love, know that I am still thinking of you, and wanting you back in my life ever so much. I miss you.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I did a 365 photo project. I took a photo (at least one!) every day for the entire year. There were three days that I totally and completely forgot which really irks me, but I'm proud to say I stuck it out! I still have to finish uploading the photos and editing them...I'm still working on June! :) I'll hopefully bind them into a book. I LOVE having all of these little moments captured. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My resolution was to have more discipline. Mainly in spiritual matters, but also as far as being a more disciplined mom and wife and completing tasks around the house. Let's just say this is also my resolution for this year. :) </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>3. Did anyone close to you give birth?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Yes. There are always tons of people I know giving birth! We are in the military community and most people are around those child-bearing years. I can't even begin to list them or I would be in trouble for forgetting someone. :) I also had one close friend adopt this year and that was fun to finally see their dream of becoming parents realized in that way.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>4. Did anyone close to you die?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">No. Phew!</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>5. What countries did you visit?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Japan! (We lived there)</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>6. What would you like to have in 2012 that you lacked in 2011?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Besides self discipline? :)</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>7. What dates from 2011 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The day that Alex got a family. The day that we left Japan. The day my son started Kindergarten. The day I started homeschooling my daughter for preschool. The day my husband finished a training he had been working toward for a long time. Those are just off of the top of my head. :) </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Losing the baby weight I had been carrying around for a year.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>9. What was your biggest failure?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">See #2</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>10. Did you suffer illness or injury?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Nothing too significant, thankfully. Shin splints and some asthma attacks in Japan.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>11. What was the best thing you bought?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Our new to us Honda Odyssey minivan. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>12. Where did most of your money go?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">See #11. Also some of our furniture and other items got mold damage when it shipped from Japan back to the U.S. We got reimbursed for it, but not enough to buy new. So we ended up buying a new couch and loveseat that we weren't planning on buying and a few other items.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When I found Alex's picture on the MFFM page. I was also really excited to go see Alaska for the first time (it didn't disappoint). </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>14. What song will always remind you of 2011?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">JJ Heller: What love really means</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>15. Compared to this time last year, are you:</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>– happier or sadder?</strong> Happier. My hubby is home a lot more. There is WAY less drama in my life.<br />
<strong>– thinner or fatter?</strong> Thinner. Yay!<br />
<strong>– richer or poorer? </strong>Poorer.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>16. What do you wish you’d done more of?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Praying and reading the Bible. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>17. What do you wish you’d done less of?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Hmmm. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>18. How did you spend Christmas?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Visiting my in-laws. It was very relaxing. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>19. What was your favorite TV program?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Probably the X Factor. I was very surprised by the talent in that competition.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>20. What were your favorite books of the year?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Hands down it was The Help. (was that this year??). Hunger Games, Room. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>21. What was your favorite music from this year?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">David Crowder Band, JJ Heller...um, I'm not really sure! </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>22. What were your favorite films of the year?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The Help</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>23. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I turned 31 this year. Just spent it with my hubby and kids. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>24. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Less stress?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>25. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2011?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Try not to look TOO much like a stay-at-home-mom.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>26. What kept you sane?</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Praying. My husband and kids. Friends.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>27. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2011.</strong></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">God is sovereign.</span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-2194067389336684662012-01-22T18:57:00.000-08:002012-01-22T18:57:23.117-08:00Coming out of the Woodwork<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">After all of the excitement about Alex I decided to take a little break from blogging. I decided that I'm going to get back at this! There are way too many cuties to advocate for and I'm sure my fbook friends are sick of me sharing (but I still will!). </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I put all the names of all of the commenters in a bowl and had my kids draw the names. I DID have to redraw for one of the prizes though when someone won the item they donated :). Other than that, this was a completely random drawing! There are a few instances that one person won more than one prize. This is because their name was entered for each item on the list as I stated in the post. There were also a few times that people commented on fbook that they had donated, and not on my blog, but I counted those entries too and put those names in the drawing.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Walmart Gift card: Courtney</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Wild Olive gift cert: Hannah homemade</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Mary Kay set: Sarah</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Mary Kay set: Sharon</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Hand knit hats: Kristen</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Headbands (knit): Sarah</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Ribbon headbands set 1: Slow me down</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Ribbon headbands set 2: Katie</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Pillowcases: Hannah homemade</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Doll and necklace: Tricia</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Earring and necklace set: Erin</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Blog makeover: Catherine </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Photography tutorial: Natalie</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Congrats! </span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-67489531367510608382011-09-25T19:15:00.000-07:002011-09-25T19:15:49.468-07:00We did it!!<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Thank you SOOO much to all who donated! Comments are now closed for the giveaway. Some of you commented on the fbook page instead of on the blog and I will add your names to the giveaway too. Winners announced SOON! </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Happy, happy birthday sweet Alex! You are five and celebrating without your family, but there are SO many people here who love you and are praying for you. Hoping so badly that this will be the LAST birthday you will celebrate alone! We love you!</span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-12194999302080623512011-09-25T18:11:00.001-07:002011-09-25T18:11:40.979-07:00Only a few minutes left!<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Only 50 minutes left in the giveaway! Can we raise $80 more??!!</span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990444207341997647.post-85806264063170625792011-09-23T12:01:00.001-07:002011-09-23T12:01:55.212-07:00The change<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It is amazing to read about this family's journey to get their son. Their son has CP like Alex. He was transferred just 3 months ago to an institution....here is their experience</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Someone please rescue little A!</span>Amberhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09288077416567992003noreply@blogger.com0